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The Lowdown on Low Self-Esteem

Are you having self-doubts lately? Feeling anxious or conscious all the time? Do you think you can’t do anything? When you are having low self-esteem, you get those kinds of thoughts. Occasionally, we would sometimes feel down and doubt ourselves. But if it becomes a regular thing, it’s possible that you have low self-esteem. You think negatively of yourself. Doubt and guilt cloud your thoughts.

 

How you see yourself and how you measure your capabilities compose your self-esteem. And it can greatly impact your everyday life. Ideally, we should all appreciate ourselves and accept who we are. However, for various reasons, there are those who find it difficult to realize their self-worth. These people should not lose hope, because there are some ways to boost one’s self-esteem.

 

What is self-esteem? 

Basically, it is when one is accepting of his or herself, acknowledging individual strengths and values. Merriam-Webster defines the term as “a confidence and satisfaction in oneself.” We have different levels of self-esteem as we all differ in perception. Believing in yourself is an important piece of having a healthy self-esteem.

 

On the other hand, doubts can actually spread in our minds like poison, lowering belief in one’s self. With a decreased self-esteem, people tend not to be motivated, and can even manifest as depression. It affects one’s mental well-being, causing issues like anxiety or panic attacks. This can translate to lower productivity at work or lack of interest in new things, or missing important opportunities.

 

Elevating your self-worth 

For people who think they have low self-esteem, there are actually several ways that they can try to actively boost their confidence and prevent excessive doubts. Here are some of our suggestions on how to improve your self-esteem.

 

Acknowledge your strengths

One of the best first steps to do is to know what and where you’re good at. This way, you’ll be reminded that you are just as important as everyone else. If you’re finding it hard to do this, try to actually write down your good characteristics. Consider the compliments that you've received from friends and family. Appreciate what you can do well. Whenever self-doubts start to creep in again, go back to your list and think of your positive contributions.

 

Forgive your limitations

Another thing to bear in mind is that even those who you deem as the “best people” also have their own shortcomings. We have our own flaws in our own way. Stop focusing on what you can’t do. It’s very important not to define ourselves by our own weaknesses. Having a mindset fixated on limitations can actually hinder the discovery of our truest potentials. Be aware that you don’t have to be perfect, as long as you strive to learn and improve, you’re already good enough.

 

Rid of comparison

We have different yardsticks for success, so really comparing yourself to other people should be irrelevant to how you perceive yourself. When we continue to measure our achievements using other people’s, we’ll never achieve what we truly deserve. Either we can sink so deep in insecurity or be so drowned by arrogance. If we learn to accept that we have our own time and we have different ways to assess happiness, we’d be better off. It prevents doubts and encourages a positive mindset.

 

Be around positive people

Who you go with or hang around with also affects how you think. So be sure to surround yourself with people who are willing to support you and help you become better. Learn to appreciate people who also appreciate you and your good traits. If possible, stay away from those who are keen on discouraging you or those who are not willing to improve. We should be pulling each other up, not dragging ourselves down. Learn to be helped, and also help others.

 

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Self-esteem is not necessarily equivalent to one’s own abilities. But having a positive perception of your own capacity is actually way better than focusing on your doubts or limitations. Never ever forget that you matter and that we can all have a meaningful contribution to this world. If you’re finding it hard to believe, try one or more of our suggestions on how to improve your self-esteem, and you’d realize what a valuable gem you are. Give yourself some credit and regain your self-esteem.

 

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