Who is in your circle?
A couple of weekends ago, this light bulb started to flicker on top of my head. I call it the "right-thinking bulb". I asked myself this question: "who is in my circle?"
It all started with this thought! for a couple of years now, I could not understand how someone would say I care, I love and/or I am there for you but once you have a tantrum, you say I need time off, it becomes "holy saint it is about time!" as if they could not wait for you to say these words. Sometimes the behaviors we display can harm us tremendously.
I realized one thing, the people you call family is never your true family. They are not blood-related, they are the people who accept you...
I am proud of who you have become. I literally am amazed by the hard work you put into yourself to be the best version of you. You understood the steps to develop self-care, and you allowed yourself to let go of the things that were holding you back.
Now, what direction are you heading in?
As you are celebrating the person you are becoming, what are the questions you have asked yourself? A few weeks ago, I gave you a few tips on how to put you first and some steps on how to create your goals. You see! those strategies are EXCEPTIONAL, and the more you practice them the easier things will be. We call it our motivational rituals #HABITS to live life and VET and to...
We have been told many times that “curiosity kills the cat” isn't that a very lame statement?
I am a curious person, in fact, who in this world is not curious? But I never wanted to make use of my curiosity. Want to know why? I was worried about what others would say and think of me. But I decided to go all-in with the choices and leaps that I wanted to take.
Do you worry about what others think and say about you? If so, STOP! it is time to VET:
You see once you start giving yourself the chance to VET things around you will shift for the better. You may have heard...
The decisions we make in our lives determine how far we go. We are the leaders of our lives, and as much as we are alive the decisions that we make can lead us to know what is right, what is fair and what is true. When we make decisions we are able to manage our plans, but if we do not stay focused, chances are that we will lose the opportunities that pass us by.
Today I woke up thinking how am I making my decisions? Are the daily decisions I make helping me lead my life effectively? I noticed that over the week some decisions I took were not aligned with the plans that I had. I was not balanced and focused. I looked at the calendar that I created for myself of the tasks...
Do you know what your purpose is in life?
I assure you that is a question 80% of people ask themselves daily.
Do you think you are not worthy of the things that happen in your life?
As I was listening to that podcast this morning, I learned that we "(human beings) are the only species to suffer from dubious diseases because we are unhappy with what we have." We carry on the guilt of limiting beliefs.
Is there something that gives your life a sense of meaning and purpose?
Often we blame ourselves because of something we did or say many years ago to someone we love (families, and friends). We allow ourselves to believe that we are not worthy of changes, not...
What other ways could you have started the new year if it is not with bigger and bolder dreams? It would not have been if you did not have confidence within yourself. You believed that if you set your mind to achieve greater things, the universe will work in your favor.
We planned to start the year with a different mindset. We also created some affirmations to help us build confidence, certainty, and assurance to create shifts in our lives. But what is a shift if we are stagnant in life, doing the same thing over and over? What is a shift if we have the same negative habits, afraid to let go or to move forward?
I invite you to boldly stand and create a peaceful mindset so you can...
As we are getting closer to the end of the year, I am also inviting you to reflect on the steps you took this year to get where you are now. Many of us have gone through setbacks, you've experienced a love that led to heartaches, anger over losing something important, fears of being judged, betrayal of all against one over and over again. You've been through some deep darkness because of the choices you've made. One day, you realized that all listed above are key factors in someone's life to help reinvent the wheels. We must experience going through the darkness in order to find the light.
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I used to be mad, raging hell when...