Humility is part of your practice

confidence self-love Aug 28, 2019

It is Confidence Wednesday Queens

Good day, lovelies!
How is your Confidence Journey going thus far?

What can trigger you to lose your humility?

This morning I woke up refraining from an approach I had towards someone, I had to ask God for His mercy. And asked for wisdom so I do not step out of my humility again.

Is it possible to be triggered by people or things and step out of our humility?
Your homework is to ponder on this question and look into it with the eyes of wisdom.

Humility can not be seated next to arrogance, envy, anger, cakiness, etc. Humility can be joined with confidence so you can remove yourself from the equation of those who have to devour arrogance as their only paths,...

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Choose How To Live

No Cover-Ups

Last year the same date June 28th at 7:00 am in the morning I crashed on the Northern State Parkway between exit 27 and 28. Wait! did I say that I crashed on the wall divider? I crashed on the wall divider and bounced back on the freeway and I don't know why but I did not crash with other cars. I must have had an angel shielding me in the car. What happened that morning is the car hydroplaned which caused me to first panicked, and then lost control of the wheel.

You see, usually, 7:00 am is rush hour time, on a weekday. That is when everyone including me, heads to work and leaves very early to avoid the big traffic; which I did. That...

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You Are Perfect With Your Imperfection

Do you beat yourself up when things are not perfect?

You are perfect with your imperfections. When things do not go as planned, allow yourself to think differently. Perfection is a disease that we create in our lives. It makes us irritable, anxious and often toxic. Do you remember, when you were growing up how your parents wanted you to do things the way they planned and envisioned? They wanted you to do the things that represented them. You were created at their image so they thought. And you carry their names, their principles, their genes, and their cultures with you everywhere you go. So you see, the perfectionism in you is not because you are not who you are, it is...

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Self-Love What Is It Anyway?

anew change healing self-love Mar 04, 2019

We have been told many times that “curiosity kills the cat” isn't that a very lame statement?
I am a curious person, in fact, who in this world is not curious? But I never wanted to make use of my curiosity. Want to know why? I was worried about what others would say and think of me. But I decided to go all-in with the choices and leaps that I wanted to take.

Do you worry about what others think and say about you? If so, STOP! it is time to VET: 

  1. Visualize the new you
  2. Educate Yourself
  3. Transform your environment 

You see once you start giving yourself the chance to VET things around you will shift for the better. You may have heard...

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Be Kind To Yourself

anew self-love Feb 04, 2019

Be Kind To Yourself!

I was one of those. The type who likes to boss people around me whom I've loved very much. I used to get easily upset when things would not go the way I wanted. I always wanted to be right, arguing to state my points.  But all it took one day was for me to face my biggest truth.  To realize that my behaviors caused me to be miserable, uncertain about what I wanted for myself. I was thinking the worst of myself, and I created the belief that the people around me were quick to criticize and to judge me. 

After being hard on myself for many years, I noticed one thing. I noticed that I needed to be kind to myself. I needed to be kind to my state...

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Your Best Self Is Now.

anew leadership self-love Jan 21, 2019

Over the past days, I was nagging on something that was not working. I did not allow myself to live through the process so I got upset and I did not achieve anything that I had planned to do. I let hours gone pass and did not finish what I had written in my agenda. Then I asked myself this question; when am I my best self? 

What do you do when you are not at your best?  
For some, being your best self is when you are around a group of people when you feel the needs for validations from someone else. But the truth is that you must always be your best self, and the time to be your best self is now.  You do not have to wait for someone to say yes or no. You do not...

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The Power of I Am

anew healing self-love Nov 05, 2018

What is stopping you from being you?

You paired with others giving all types of diagnosis to yourself, "you're bipolar, you're paranoid, you're bossy etc".  You get hard on yourself because you are afraid of the critics, afraid of being judged, afraid that you do not fit. But all along, the only thing that has stopped you from growing and being you, has always been you.

" We become what we think about" Earl Nightingale

When you think life is meaningless, hard and you have no purpose to serve in this world; you are simply setting up the foundation for your negative thoughts. You start building negative thoughts over negative thoughts and become chained by what you think, say...

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