It is Confidence Wednesday Queens
Good day, lovelies!
How is your Confidence Journey going thus far?
What can trigger you to lose your humility?
This morning I woke up refraining from an approach I had towards someone, I had to ask God for His mercy. And asked for wisdom so I do not step out of my humility again.
Is it possible to be triggered by people or things and step out of our humility?
Your homework is to ponder on this question and look into it with the eyes of wisdom.
Humility can not be seated next to arrogance, envy, anger, cakiness, etc. Humility can be joined with confidence so you can remove yourself from the equation of those who have to devour arrogance as their only paths,...
We have been told many times that “curiosity kills the cat” isn't that a very lame statement?
I am a curious person, in fact, who in this world is not curious? But I never wanted to make use of my curiosity. Want to know why? I was worried about what others would say and think of me. But I decided to go all-in with the choices and leaps that I wanted to take.
Do you worry about what others think and say about you? If so, STOP! it is time to VET:
You see once you start giving yourself the chance to VET things around you will shift for the better. You may have heard...
I was one of those. The type who likes to boss people around me whom I've loved very much. I used to get easily upset when things would not go the way I wanted. I always wanted to be right, arguing to state my points. But all it took one day was for me to face my biggest truth. To realize that my behaviors caused me to be miserable, uncertain about what I wanted for myself. I was thinking the worst of myself, and I created the belief that the people around me were quick to criticize and to judge me.
After being hard on myself for many years, I noticed one thing. I noticed that I needed to be kind to myself. I needed to be kind to my state...
Over the past days, I was nagging on something that was not working. I did not allow myself to live through the process so I got upset and I did not achieve anything that I had planned to do. I let hours gone pass and did not finish what I had written in my agenda. Then I asked myself this question; when am I my best self?
What do you do when you are not at your best?
For some, being your best self is when you are around a group of people when you feel the needs for validations from someone else. But the truth is that you must always be your best self, and the time to be your best self is now. You do not have to wait for someone to say yes or no. You do not...
You paired with others giving all types of diagnosis to yourself, "you're bipolar, you're paranoid, you're bossy etc". You get hard on yourself because you are afraid of the critics, afraid of being judged, afraid that you do not fit. But all along, the only thing that has stopped you from growing and being you, has always been you.
" We become what we think about" Earl Nightingale
When you think life is meaningless, hard and you have no purpose to serve in this world; you are simply setting up the foundation for your negative thoughts. You start building negative thoughts over negative thoughts and become chained by what you think, say...