This morning I woke up thinking what if?

What if I only have today to live my best life?
What if life knocks me down, what are the goals I want to set for myself? 
What if I do not make it to fifty years, what kind of legacy would I leave behind?

These were the types of questions I was asking myself. Are these the types of questions you asked yourself every day? You see, having our goals set brings clarity for us. We make it easier to set a foundation for ourselves and the next generation. 

So, if they are the typical questions you asked yourself on a daily basis, I can help you answer them. What you need to know about setting up your goals is that, your goals must be SMART...

As I was engaging this week in the 7-Day Confidence Challenge that I have in my closed group, I felt the need to share those ideas with you as well.

The entire week we have been learning about the steps we need to build our confidences. And in case you are asking how is that possible, can you build your confidence in 7 Days? Well! to build confidence requires for you to take steps. And there are specific practices to help you set the tone in 7 Days.

Here is the thing, when you can help someone and vice versa it is a support that is being provided. What we must understand is this, when we are building confidence, we are also helping someone else who is in the journey. Which...

The past month, I noticed a few people from my past showed up. So I thought, "how weird is that". What message is the universe trying to send out to me? I could not make sense of the events that were happening from one person, to the next and the one after that. I was surprised, so I reacted with partial anger and partial bliss.

Does this happen to you too, out of the blue someone from your past shows up? How does it make you feel? I know when you take years, and days and hours to work on your personal development, the last thing you want is to see your past showing up waving at you as if everything was the same.

Sigh...

So! do you think that it is best to leave the past stories archived?...

I remember when we were asked to stay home on a lockdown. And we were told not to go out, be around large crowds and even around some friends and families. Everyone started to panic. Well! I was one of those people too. There was a rush of uncertainty because no one knew at that time if they were going to lose their jobs, have a sane lifestyle at home and many more. And oh boy! for those parents it was the end of the world. 

Wait! What? Who is going to teach my child? I don't know anything about curriculum. Is the Mayor crazy? Where are the teachers?

And Boom...Chakalaka: ) Many of the states that never had remote learning, home schooling in their curriculum had...

Who is in your circle?

A couple of weekends ago, this light bulb started to flicker on top of my head. I call it the "right-thinking bulb". I asked myself this question: "who is in my circle?"

It all started with this thought! for a couple of years now, I could not understand how someone would say I care, I love and/or I am there for you but once you have a tantrum, you say I need time off, it becomes "holy saint it is about time!" as if they could not wait for you to say these words. Sometimes the behaviors we display can harm us tremendously.

I realized one thing,  the people you call family is never your true family. They are not blood-related, they are the people who accept you...

It is Confidence Wednesday Queens

Good day, lovelies!
How is your Confidence Journey going thus far?

What can trigger you to lose your humility?